Why Some Doctors May Avoid You

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A scientist with whom I had recently subcontracted was leaving a restaurant with a group of colleagues. My greeting was met with a denial of knowing me. This was not the only time I was “ghosted” by medical professionals. In two other public places, different doctors looked shocked when introduced to family. Physicians often dis­tance themselves from patients or non-medical acquaintances in social settings. Here are some possible reasons:

REASON 1: To care for as many patients as possible, physicians must remain healthy. This concern elevates during the pandemic. During patient consultation, you may notice them maintaining a 6-foot distance. If your symptoms suggest something contagious, there may be no physical contact during your visit. Telemedicine is becoming more common.

Why Some Doctors Avoid You

REASON 2: Doctors socially distance from patients. Outside the office, most prefer to roam incognito. Being called “Doctor” on the street might mark them as a target for crime. Someone in earshot may assume wealth and pounce on the opportunity to rob them. There is also concern over staged events to file malpractice law suits.

REASON 3: You can get the cold shoulder online too. Social media stigma is common. Patients want doctors to diagnose something. Your health concerns are likely to enter the conversation, after all, you are talking to a doctor. Physicians, in general, do not want to treat patients in public. Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act (HIPAA) prohibits sharing identifiable patient information within earshot of others without consent. Again, this can lead to liability issues. Also, there is no way to monetize casual consultations.

REASON 4: With a vast education, doctors communi­cate in another language. This may be true of you in your profession. Whether you are an accountant, architect, builder, chef, mechanic, musician, program­mer, scientist, stock broker, or something more obtuse, you can easily alienate others with the language of your profession. People who do not share your profession can’t decipher what you are saying enough to converse. The same is true of physicians.

REASON 5: Developing romantic relationships with patients is unethical. If a doctor comes in contact with a patient of the opposite sex in public, the conversation may be curt. This might be an attempt to prevent any appearance of impropriety.

REASON 6: Prejudice can also be a factor. The scientist was with people who share his ethnicity and social status. This can cause someone to have selective amnesia.

Doctors prefer to speak with other doctors or talk to patients in a medical setting. In social settings there is limited interaction with those outside the medical profession unless, perhaps, the doctor is your next-door neighbor.

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Kevin Williams is a health advocate and writer of hundreds of articles for multiple web­sites, including: A Bit More Healthy, KevinMD (WebMD), and Sue’s Nutrition Buzz. He is a prior 15-year con­sul­tant for Neutrogena Research and Scientific Affairs.

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