Clinical Depression Meets Narcissism

People with damaging counteractive personalities often attract one another. Why is this the case and how can others help?

Unhealthy Opposites Attract

People with narcissistic personality disorder often appear very charismatic and exciting to those looking for approval. The need to feel accepted and validated can draw people with clinical depression towards those with narcissism.

Additionally, people with clinical depression may find narcissists attractive because they assume that their needs and wants will always be taken care of. Unfortunately, this often leads to an unbalanced and unhealthy dynamic.

Living with someone who has narcissistic personality disorder is difficult for people with clinical depression. It can be an emotionally draining, challenging, and intense experience. The narcissist often focuses on getting his or her needs met.

There may be an unwillingness to compromise or empathize with the person with depression. Seeking support from a psychotherapist or other professional can help learn how to cope with and manage the challenges of living with a narcissist. Narcissistic personality disorder is the antithesis of clinical depression.

Clinical Depression Symptoms

Persistent feelings of sadness and hopelessness
Decreased energy or desire to engage in activities
Negative thoughts
Difficulty concentrating or remembering
Changes in sleep and appetite
Physical aches and pains
Thoughts of suicide or death

Narcissistic Personality Disorder Symptoms

Grandiose sense of self-importance
Excessive need for admiration
Lack of empathy for others
Extreme obsession with personal achievement
Tendency to take advantage of others
Arrogant and haughty demeanor
Preoccupation with fantasies of power and beauty

Supportive Friends of Clinically Depressed

As a friend, help by providing emotional and moral support, as well as reassurance. It is comforting to listen to the depressed person’s concerns and struggles with understanding. Remind the person of his or her value, and encourage them to take care of themselves. Help them focus on developing strategies to cope with the situation.

Individuals with clinical depression need to be aware of their vulnerability and take steps to protect themselves. Strategies such as setting boundaries, avoiding giving in to unreasonable demands, and having a trusted friend or family member with whom to talk are invaluable.

Setting boundaries and practicing self-care, such as maintaining a healthy social life, getting enough sleep, and exercising is helpful. Encourage them to lean on other healthy relationships for emotional support.

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